Mum has incontinence

Just like the late dad who had incontinence after a fall, mum is now having the same condition. She could not control her bowel muscles anymore and now has incontinence. But she is luckier. We learned from dad's experience. It was cruel of us to put dad away in a nursing home even though we were prepared to hire a maid or nurse for dad but mum refused to let him go home. She does not want the inconvenience of entertaining his many friends who might come to visit him and we did not take him seriously when he said, "I will go mad staying here any longer." Dad was very unhappy staying in a nursing home where his roommate even compares their Johnnys and was sarcastic. Mum is luckier. We hired a talkative maid for her and she's happy having her M size Tena pampas changed about 12 times at night. Her stool comes out each time the pampas was changed. But the maid is apparently very happy working for us. Thank God.

Good Food = Good Mood :) - Dinner at Chinese Recreation Club

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Dinner at Chinese Recreation Club. Crab meat with dried scallops, tauhu topped with minced pork, black mushrooms, salted fish and prawns. Seaweed with fishballs soup. #crc #chineserecreationclub #chineserecreationclubrestaurant #amazingfood

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The tagline Good Food certainly equals to Good Mood. Food is cathartic and helps reduces stress at work, with people, etc. Just click on the right button to scroll to the left the delicious pictures of food taken recently at Chinese Recreation Club of my Instagram account. The main dish was stir-fried dried scallops with lots of crabmeat and egg, that was paired with lettuce as the wrapper. Next, we had seaweed with home-made fishballs soup and finally beancurd topped with minced meat with salted fish and prawns in dark soya sauce. It was simply ambrosia and Chinese Recreation Club is well known for its food amongst diners and member who get to enjoy 10% discount with a member card.

You are Fearfully and Wonderfully Made

Psalm 139:13-16-13-16 The Message (MSG)
Oh yes, you shaped me first inside, then out; you formed me in my mother’s womb. I thank you, High God—you’re breathtaking! Body and soul, I am marvelously made! I worship in adoration—what a creation! You know me inside and out, you know every bone in my body; You know exactly how I was made, bit by bit, how I was sculpted from nothing into something. Like an open book, you watched me grow from conception to birth; all the stages of my life were spread out before you, The days of my life all prepared before I’d even lived one day.

God knows the number of strands of our hair and our innermost being. We are precious in God's sight and don't let any negativity destroy that thought.

Make your Life Counts

Life here is short or long for some people. Make our lives count and leave a legacy to benefit mankind. But at the same time, don't let toxic people suck the life out of you. Toxic people can come in the form of relatives, family, friends, etc. Just ignore them and stay away. The important thing is how you see yourself, not how others see you. Don't let the devil hoodwink you into mixing with a bad obnoxious company that pulls you down instead of lifting you up. My dad is one such person who always encourages and teaches patiently while I was a kid. I know he's a good man, though we may be at loggerheads at times. He is now in heaven with Jesus, no more pain, suffering, neglect by spouse, etc. I love you dad.

Down with Flu

2 days ago, I was down with the flu and saw an Indian doctor for consultation and medication. The total cost me $45 and I guess I have been working too hard at the expense of my body, not enough sleep. I am still sick but love to blog and update a few of them to monetize these blogs. I have a sore throat, running nose and cough with phlegm. Today is Labour day and it is a holiday here in Malaysia. Therefore, I shall take the opportunity to sleep in today so that my flu will recover faster You cannot take a chance at your health. By the way, mum and youngest sister will clean the tombstones and pull out the weeds of my granny and grandpa this morning.

AX ALLIANCE - UNITING FINANCE

I just came back from watching Avengers: Endgame when I log on to the computer and check AX ALLIANCE - UNITING FINANCE. The purpose is to furnish their financial specialists with an incredible opportunity for their assets, dealing with FOREX on the market effectively. Basically, I had joined this site 6 months ago with USD 200 deposit. The amount of fund I received was 15% more than the initial investment, which is pretty good.

I am conservative and this works well for me. To me, I don't wish to invest too much of my hard-earned money to see it gone in other bad investments. If you like to enjoy financial freedom, you can join this site and see what it offers as a member. The e-currencies accepted are Perfect Money, Payeer, and Bitcoin.

Lucky Colors to Wear Based on Your Zodiac

I was browsing the internet this morning after waking up and came across an interesting site >> Lucky Colors to Wear Based on Your Zodiac. Here is my summary: For some people who believe in Feng Shui, the colors that they wear mean a lot for the month. You can refer to the Paht Chee of the chart for 2019. It refers to your animal or zodiac sign you were born under or what your personalized chart says.

For instance, dragon cushion covers are usually red and weaved or embroidered in yellow threads. There are 5 elements like metal, earth, wood, fire, and water. You can refer to the chart as shown below:

Well the above picture summarizes everything.

MATTA Fair 2019

This afternoon, I went to MATTA fair to check out tours especially local ones since my spouse does not have a passport yet. Well, he did receive a letter stating that he will get back his passport in due time. So, I was not too keen on overseas tours until he gets back his passport. There were cruises, Nordic tours to see the beautiful green light at night, whatever you call it - aurora. Wikipedia defines Aurora as such - An aurora (plural: auroras or aurorae), sometimes referred to as polar lights, northern lights (aurora borealis), southern lights (aurora australis), is natural light. Well, one of these days, I am going to see this magnificent magic in the nordic pole when I retire.