Just like the late dad who had incontinence after a fall, mum is now having the same condition. She could not control her bowel muscles anymore and now has incontinence. But she is luckier. We learned from dad's experience. It was cruel of us to put dad away in a nursing home even though we were prepared to hire a maid or nurse for dad but mum refused to let him go home. She does not want the inconvenience of entertaining his many friends who might come to visit him and we did not take him seriously when he said, "I will go mad staying here any longer." Dad was very unhappy staying in a nursing home where his roommate even compares their Johnnys and was sarcastic. Mum is luckier. We hired a talkative maid for her and she's happy having her M size Tena pampas changed about 12 times at night. Her stool comes out each time the pampas was changed. But the maid is apparently very happy working for us. Thank God.
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